I remember waking to another soul-draining cold morning,
lifting my swollen eye lids,
I knew I'd hit the wall with my hang-over of despair.
Staring up at the colorless ceiling, I wondered,
"Is this all there is to my life?
A hot flushed sensation rose on my skin and my angry eyes...
I felt trapped and hopeless.
My 20 plus years in my re-marriage experience … where over time, in struggle for marital connection, what
revealed was a requirement to emotionally ask for less and less - which left me feeling invisible, devalued and spiritually empty.
And the option of leaving carried such a weighty self-judgment, it didn't feel like an option, at all.
Each day for years, I'd recommitted to be more, give more, try harder...
I just couldn't bear the thought of another "perceived" relationship failure.
I remember thinking , (at 56)… "you've made your bed Chris, now you'll die in it".
Fortunately my soul's loving Source opened my eyes to another way.
A medical exam and tests to rule out Cancer woke me up.
In the very moment I felt closer to physical death my heart opened to how much I wanted to live. Full stop.
In that moment of awareness, I committed to my-Self to turn my life around.
I leaped into the fire of fear with action to affect a powerful positive change.
Bringing forth my warriorette-hearted energy.
With a plan, I initiated my divorce process
and ignited my educational and experiential journey becoming a Certified Life & Relationship Coach.
Over time, I manifested a re-engaged positive life, and in time- my beloved life partner.
Life forward was not without challenging situations,
however, newly inspired and awake - I embraced the rich invitations to practice
mindfulness, loving-kindness, forgiveness, resilience and self-compassion.
Life felt sweet, promising and full again.
Then out of the blue -
as happens in the dynamic unpredictability
of "real life"
… betrayal crashed into my wonderful world
& my 5 years-in loving
And the excruciating dilemma of what to do next
and what (I believed) this said "about ME" pressed profoundly upon me.
I soon found my heartbreak of betrayal and the life consequences hooked to it - were so painfully heavy
- I couldn't recover my capacity just to breath, relax, focus, think or feel normal - again.
No matter how much I worked and committed to rise, forgive and move forward,
I stayed stuck in the cycle of pain.
All I wished was to escape the totally consuming heart-break
that sat upon my chest like a big scary intruder hooked into my Being.
How had I come to this place of unhappiness and broken-hearted-ness - "again"?
Especially after I had given so much of myself - eyes wide open.
What could I do now to free my wounded heart from this triggered cage of pain?
Where was my life experienced blind-spot?
If I wanted to stay and try to forgive him -
How would I even begin to integrate this and maintain my integrity with my Self and my life?
Although I still loved him... how could I ever know for sure
whether leaving or staying would be the right choice?
What would it take to rebuild and reignite my energy for Joy & Love?
How could I ever TRUST him again?
Hello Sweet Friend...
I'm a certified Life & Relationship Coach,
and an experienced "Heart-Warrior" positively transformed after personal betrayal -
who found a Path to BECOME more Resilient, Joy-filled and Alive with Love -
beyond the pain that can come in relationships enduring life's toughest experiences.
And I want to help YOU to do the same.
To learn to Thrive and feel Alive with Love going forward.
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Regardless of whether YOUR best decision is to STAY OR GO - YOU have Power of CHOICE.
What I found was freedom to renew my love of life.
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