Time to Illuminate. Rise Empowered. Thrive with Resilient Joy & Self-Love
Life Coach & Best Selling Author of "roots of forgiveness" My Eight Elements of Transformational Healing
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.... I remember waking to another soul-draining cold morning, lifting my swollen eye lids,
I knew I'd hit the wall with my hang-over of despair.
Staring up at the colorless ceiling, I wondered,
"Is this all there is to my life?
A hot flushed sensation rose on my skin and my angry eyes...
I felt trapped and hopeless.
20 plus years in my re-marriage journey, fatigued from my grasping for deeper connection, my soul thirsting to matter; what over time appeared instead, was my gradual disappearance through expecting and accepting less and less for myself, just to keep peace.
Soon I felt invisible, devalued and spiritually empty.
And the option of leaving carried such a weighty self-judgment, it didn't represent an option, at all.
Each day for years, I'd recommitted to be more, give more, try harder...
I just couldn't bear the thought of another "perceived" relationship failure.
I remember thinking , (at 56)… "you've made your bed Chris, now you'll die in it".
Fortunately my Soul's loving Source opened my eyes to another way.
A medical exam and tests to rule out ovarian cancer woke me up.
In the very moment I felt closer to physical death my heart opened to how much I wanted to live. Full stop.
In that space of awareness, I committed to my-Self to turn my life around.
I leaped into the fire of fear with action to affect a powerful positive change.
I awoke with a mission to find my happiness and my personal power.
With a plan, I initiated my divorce process - my most self-loving choice -
and ignited my educational and experiential journey becoming a Certified Life & Relationship Coach.
Over time, I manifested a re-engaged positive life, and in time- my beloved life partner.
Life forward was not without challenging situations,
however, newly inspired and awake - I embraced the rich invitations to practice
mindfulness, loving-kindness, forgiveness, resilience and self-compassion.
Life felt sweet, promising and full again.
Then out of the blue -
as happens in the dynamic unpredictability
of "real life" – boom! - … betrayal crashed into my wonderful world
& cracked open what I believed was my 5 years of loving committed relationship.
And the excruciating dilemma of what to do next
- along with what (I believed) this said "about ME" pressed profoundly upon me.
I soon found that my heartbreak of betrayal and the life consequences hooked to it - were so painfully heavy
- I couldn't recover my capacity just to breath, to relax, to focus, to think or to just feel normal - again.
No matter how much I worked and committed to rise, forgive and move forward,
I stayed stuck in the cycle of pain.
All I wished was to escape the totally consuming heart-break
that sat upon my chest like a big scary intruder hooked into my Being.
How had I come to this place of unhappiness and broken-hearted-ness - "again"?
Especially after I had given so much of myself - eyes wide open.
What could I do now to free my wounded heart from this triggered cage of pain?
Where was my life experienced blind-spot?
If I wanted to stay and try to forgive him -
How would I even begin to integrate this and maintain my integrity with my Self and my life?
Although I still loved him... how could I ever know for sure
whether leaving or staying would be the right choice?
What would it take to rebuild and reignite my capacity, my energy for Joy & Love? Was it even possible?
How could I ever freely TRUST him or anyone, again?
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Hello Sweet Friend...
I'm Christine..
I'm a certified Life Coach, focused in personal transformational empowerment, inspired action to healing trauma,
fierce forgiveness & grace work. All paths that in fact lead to the Rise to OUR most brilliant beautiful Self - which can alchemize out of the pain, suffering and insight - available to inspire our Growth out of Heartbreak.
An experienced "Heart-Warrior" myself - I rose to positively engage my life after personal betrayal -
and found my own Path to deeper resilience, personal agency, joy and authentic Love -
beyond my experience of profound pain while enduring one of relationship's toughest experiences.
And if this is you, I want to help YOU to do the same.
There are many different ways to feel betrayed.
Partners, family, friends, career.. dreams... even ourselves ... all can deliver disappointments causing us pain.
Whatever your crisis of heart is - I can help you find Your Path forward.
Even if, it's just NOT feeling connected to yourself.
To learn to feel Alive with Love & Joy going forward. To Open. To Flourish. To Thrive.... I can help there.
We can journey that Path Together.
My book, a #1 best seller on Amazon
“roots of forgiveness - Find Freedom to Heal in Your Marriage After Betrayal"
is honed from my personal journey through and beyond betrayal
-to genuinely forgive, build resilience, heal and create a new Love relationship.
Whether YOUR best self-loving decision is to STAY OR GO - YOU have Power of CHOICE.
What I found was freedom to renew my love of life and a new love of myself - first.
To journey the path of my power of choice to forgive and renew love with my partner.
Whatever YOUR choice - my 8 essential elements offer an exploratory start & powerful path forward - for You.
It is written as my Love Letter to You.
If it's skilled, experienced individual support you seek - as YOUR Life Coach, I offer you
a unique coaching program of ongoing support for positive self-development & change
to empower & inculcate you with skills beyond the elements of my book -
to continue to find and profoundly cultivate your freedom
to rebuild, heal, choose and once again Love Your relationship, YOURSELF & life.
IF this is YOU, my beautiful new friend....
If YOU have been wounded, burned by betrayal in relationships
and long for freedom to heal the wounds that trigger you everyday, I can help you.
If you feel shamed, anxious, irritated and emotionally imprisoned, I can help you.
If YOU are ready to reclaim yourself, find Inner Peace and build Spirit Grit
and live YOUR best most happy wholehearted life.
I can help you rise to that.
If YOU are longing for freedom from the emotional cage of suffering,
sadness, fear, anger, shame, uncertainty or resentment, feeling not enough,
and even if you don't know why you feel the way you do .... but you know you want to feel BETTER...
and YOU are ready to rise with a resilient Empowered loving heart,
to Rise Awakened & Transformed - to Thrive beyond the Wounds you carry....to feel light, joy, grace, radiant LOVE...
Then, I invite you to message me, Hop on a complementary Discovery Call with me and let’s explore if
working with me is a fit for YOU.
Together, let's empower Your Dream of Healing, Love, Peace, Ease and Happiness
- to become YOUR brilliant rebirthed reality.
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Freedom from the Hook OF Not Enough.
When your husband or partner, or a friend - betrays you and breaks your heart - you may think it's because YOU'RE NOT ENOUGH.
Well, what IF.... the truth is...
YOU ARE ENOUGH.
Well, the fact that you hold that THOUGHT, at all, is a great place to begin..
Let's explore and uncover your underlying limiting beliefs that
hold you imprisoned in a state of feeling "less".
You CAN become the best version of Yourself.
You CAN live your life with intention, purpose, resilience and love.
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Do you wish you could shake free of the hidden pain, anger and fear of your traumatic experience? Do you wonder if Joy and ease in your life is possible - again? Let's talk.
Learn how to heal after betrayal, or other painful life experiences - empower your broken heart to mend, transform your pain into a life enriching
self-evolution and free yourself of fear...
So YOU CAN live, breath, feel happy and love again.